The Divisiveness of "Should"
If you believe that you or someone should or shouldn't do something, you can be sure that there's a part of you that's attached to an agenda.
Which is welcome, of course.
But you should be aware of it.
Kidding!
But in all seriousness, the belief that experience should be different creates a sense, albeit an illusory one, of division.
And true freedom is deeply knowing that your experience is already and always whole.